This room is for supportive and informative discussion about divorce and/or the annulment process. All posters must have been previously divorced or annulled.
Saint Eugene De Mazenod is patron of dysfunctional families & Saint Fabiola obtained a divorce from her first husband prior to devoting her life to charitable works.
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That being said, let me offer a different possible perspective on the ex. You said that this guy looks like her father, and that in itself may be telling. If he is loaded, it is still about a father wound. A need to be taken care of on a level you (or any healthy man) may not have been able to or want to meet. And let me add that pointing it out to her is not a good idea.
As mentioned in these posts, it does take time to heal and reach a place of peace. For me it was prayer, love and support of friends and confession that helped me heal
God bless you in this season of New Beginnings.