Discussion related to living as a Catholic in the single state of life. As long as a topic is being discussed from the perspective of a single Catholic then it will be on-topic.
Tobias and Sarah's story is from the Book of Tobit, and his journey is guided by Saint Raphael.
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You're attractive and husband material. You just have to be patient for the right chica!
What's considered attractive and husband material is different for every woman.... as it is for every man.
I am more naturally attracted to men with darker complexions and taller- darker hair, eyes, 6 foot, etc- but that is also the way all of the men in my family look like, so there must be something genetic about it. I wouldn't date or marry based on this though.
If I found a man who loved God and His Church, practiced virtues especially fidelity, compassion, family unity, and we just clicked and had fun together, then I would find them physically HOTT no matter what they look like.
We, like men, are all different, but the following are attributes that I find attractive: A kind, strong nature; strong ethical/Christian values; strong Catholic faith;a man who is protective of those less fortunate and his family; honesty with enough kindness not to be abrasive; flexibility; a man who honors the Blessed Mother, his own mother and his wife; a man who is responsible, does the right thing and makes time to have fun and laugh; a man who loves to go to Mass; a man who loves family, but puts his wife first before everyone else; a man who loves me; an Alabama fan or at the very least a man who will enjoy watching me be an Alabama fan ...just to name a few.
Good questions, John. I'll look forward to the other answers.
Their hands. A thinker. A teacher - someone who has a desire to keep learning and to teach others and myself new things.
Concerning boyfriend / husband, someone who takes time in the progression of a relationship and is willing to demonstrate, primarily through actions, their willingness to learn / care about you. Someone who is knowledgeable about goals and who understands and agrees that marriage is a choice. Being able to forgive and move forth.
.....And I'll sneak in someone who loves hiking.
Really though, this is an open-ended question with many variables to consider. Be who you are, strive to follow God's teachings, and spread happiness as much as you can. The rest will fall into place.