I am at the time of life that a woman who selects me from the men she knows and have known is an indiction of her intelligence and blissffulness; she will be in rare company. She will get me to forget other women much sooner. It shows she is may be interested in meeting someday in person, if things work out, instead of a being a pen pal. Also it indicates that she might have healthy friendships that aid her in rejection. I like a woman who knows what she likes and dislikes. If a woman "claimed" a bar in town, and approached men who would not stare at the "pretty" ladies as they walked by, then I have no problem if she rejects me and talks to another man later that night - I had my chance.
I have viewed the profile of a woman before and thought to write her a (meaningful) first letter the next day, but then she viewed my profile first. It happens.
oh, one more thing. If you spot a man in public that you might want to meet and you send a "pretty" friend to walk in front of his view AND he does not even look at her let alone stare, then you might find a man to talk too all night ( tell him too what brought you to begin a conversation); he will be okay if you tell him later you are not interested; he will leave with a smile. If that would ever happen to me, then she will get to know me much better and quicker so she can make a decision about us. Amen.