So, it's all up to the man? Whenever something doesn't work out it's because HE dropped the ball?? It can never be the other way around - i.e. HER doing?
There are plenty of wonderful marriagable women on CM. Moreso than any other dating site. But you won't find many of them on the forums. I'm starting to believe that this is the damaged floor models section of the furniture store. The marriageable women find a man, fallin love, and marry him. Those who are consitutionally incapable of sharing theirlives with ANYONE sit around carping and scolding men. I'm so fed up with that attitude many here espouse. Not you - you're always fair and never mean-spirited. But many women on these forums are pirahnas.
The man keeps the ball moving forward toward the goal line (marriage)..So yes, there many instances where the man drops the ball when he stops communicating with a woman who is very interested.. I've seen the posts in the Pink Room a thousand times.. "I am really interested in this guy and we had a great time when we went out, but he's stopped writing. What should I do?"