Just was wondering, what is the youngest age that I should use when using the search feature, I am 41 and please be honest ,my feeling's wont get hurt just want to know how the under 30's think about men in there 40's
Your search criteria should be based on your preferences, not the ladies' preferences. Search as young as you would feel comfortable dating. If a particular lady feels that your age is too old for her, she will either not reply or will let you know. No harm done. Some women even put their preferred age range in their Seeking section.
Personally, I would go up to about 12 years older. When I was younger, I was more comfortable with a slightly larger age difference, up to 15 years.
Thanks so much for the advise all of you have good points, but the main thing I am getting is that at 41 years old you women make me feel old, I am going to the gym and riding my motorcycle to the beach up and down the coast. I dont feel 41, I feel very much like i did when i was 25, free and single and the only thing I am missing is a God send for a soul mate.
Thanks Kelly for your thoughts, you may be correct when it come to commen ground, but does love know any bounderies.
Love may not know any boundaries, so that's why you should search for women in whatever age range you want! You never know what 25-year old you message that is open to a relationship with a 40-year old, right? Also, that tat on your arm looks great! The artist did such a nice job!