I am by no means an authority, expert, or knowledge of the Church teaching, or the mysteries of God. This is very sensitive and troublesome subject of concern to the faithful and like to contribute my thoughts.
Isn't it through Mary, Mother of the Church, that we received Jesus, High Priest. We are aware that we do not replace or above a priest, deacon, in our role as Extraordinary Eucharist Minister, a small role but a great privilege and honor. That is, we say, "yes" to Mary, as her servant, to her Son, in God's Holy House in any small temporary ministry called to serve.
When you think majority of times, or in most cases, a family banquet the women would do the majority of preparation, but the Holy Banquet, Catholic Mass, we as EME would only be in a small capacity. Isn't God delighted that Mary gave birth and said "Yes" .
Also, throughout Jesus ministries you see women in His presence before and after His Resurrection. Then, would Jesus not be pleased to see us as one Body, although in a small role, Jesus be smiling because of love .
Jesus knows we are human and err, but love overshadows everything and in time there will be sufficient priest and deacon, the harvest is ripe.
As to offend who would it be: Mary, the Mother of Church; God the Father; God the Holy Spirit; or God the Son, they are all present in the Catholic Mass. Angels play their trumpet and sing praises. How would they judge us, that would be my greatest fear, for I am not perfect, a sinner to worship and praise God.