If you are following the church teachings then you already no what is wrong. As for being grown up enough to control your self while traveling get two rooms travel with others to be safe. Yet , I have myself traveled with guys and we have due to lack of money gotten one room and 2 beds but in the end those guys are just very good friends with me at the time they were more than that but very respectful. making out is alright as long as you don't get too hot . I kissing is not at all a bad thing but you both need to talk about this stuff before engaging in it . Communicate with each other, take your time with with each other as well. Just my 2 cents.
Well frankly isn't temptation a state of mind?
For example if I'm going camping and sharing a tent with someone I'm dating. Say this tent is really big. We are both sleeping on the extreme opposite sides. What if there is not lust or mental temptation. It's literally sleeping in a tent. Would you consider that bad? Also I travel often and with one of my good guy friends. We typically to save costs get double beds. We are not attracted to eachother and we practically consider eachother family (as in sibling relationship). Is that considered bad?
Sorry I didn't get back to this quicker Patricia I had tech issues. I do agree with you Patricia temptation is a state of mind and is different for each individual. My favorite priest always points out the we are individuals and that what some find a temptation is not and vice versea . I have guy friends that are like brothers and would not even worry about sleeping in a tent or bed or anything with them . In fact if traveling together not just to cut costs but for safety issue would stay with since I can trust them and they can trust me. Some might consider it bad but you don't need to bother paying mind to them . You are an adult and more importantly you know the people and the situation best. There for you know you are not doing anything at all wrong so don't worry about it .