I keep reading in the fora that guys are claiming that they are intimidated about contacting ladies on this site. I am just curious as to what about a profile, photograph or woman would intimidate you about contacting her?
Shara - did the men you're referring to actually use the word "intimidated?" If so, there are two possibilities. One, the man was insecure. Two, the womens' profile/photo portrayed a very strong characteristic (IMO, which they should) and the man was insecure with those specific characteristics. Seems to make sense right? So, question back to the women, how strong of a message to you want to send in your profile (narrows the potential list of men who would/could respond) versus keeping the profile simple and possibly vague (cast your net broadly)?