I just joined CM, and waited to do so until my annulment was final after two years. I certainly learned patience in the process, and the knowledge that God would not only have plenty for me to do in the meantime while I wait, it gave my heart a chance to heal and focus on what I really want. I am now in a position (with the help of CM!) wait for who I really want...more importantly, for who God really wants for me and my children. I heard somewhere on here that if the right person hasn't come along yet on CM, that one of you is not ready. Makes perfect sense to me. Takes nine months to birth a new life, 18-25 years to become an adult, another 10-15 years to really "get it right." And I'm okay with it now!
God bless your journey!