Ditto here..I want to be chased.. It makes me anxious to be the one initiating contacts because then I'm not sure if he's responding just to be polite.. I need to be hit over the head with a baseball bat of interest from him..
See why everyone gets so confused? Guys say they're clueless when women like them. Then women say that they don't know if a guy is truly interested or if he's just being nice. Some guys reply right away; others may take a week or several weeks.
I'm gonna call my mom and ask why I didn't have an arranged marriage.