(Quote) Kahirup-898887 said: Addendum to my earlier post: it won't hurt too if both parties, when they are already in a relationship,...
(Quote) Kahirup-898887 said:
Addendum to my earlier post: it won't hurt too if both parties, when they are already in a relationship, strive not only for perfection of their faith, but also maintain themselve physically attractive for each other.
My dad once gave me a bit of advise: "A fur coat for the body does not offset the shoddy apparel of the mind", which, when I forget that, has brought me to grief.
I recently had a relationship with a woman who I can only describe as absolutely stunningly beautiful in the classic sense. Think Catherine Zeta Jones (for me, ok?); lithe, beautiful eyes, stunning figure (at the age of 58, ok?), everything visual that a guy could hope for. The inside reality? Really, truly, manifestly messed up. A broken marriage (annulled) from 20 some odd years ago still expressed with resentment, two broken engagements on her part after cohabitating with the guys (one for 17 years), outwardly 'Catholic' with a potty mouth when upset, and discovered her head was in the bottle before noon.
No matter how beautiful, that absolutely stunningly beautiful (yany breathing male's head would have turned had she walked into a room, really) woman had an interior which was NOT desirable, nor could I see myself waking up to that.
Sorry to be blunt. I forgot my dad's advice, to my detriment. Live and learn.