We are here! Maybe you have too many conditions on your search? Maybe you're just looking in the wrong place? Maybe it will take time? I've found a large number of women on other sites, and every last one turned out to be an online dating scam. Luckily, alarms went off in my head each time, and I broke it off before any significant damage was done at my end. One of the ramifications of ducking all those scams: I'm much more timid than I used to be, and might come across as guarded, wary of the next scammer. Maybe you have found one of them, just didn't see it because they were overly cautious. I'm sure that you will find us if you just keep looking.
Were those scammers on here or another site? I've run into 1-2 here but it's not as prolific as on other sites. Which leads me to wonder, why doesn't CM require pictures? None of the sites do and to me, that'd be the first clue to a potential scammer! Good Catholic Guys and Gals do exist - it can just get frustrating to find the one God intends for us. As a divorced gal, it seems even harder. I just hold onto Corinthians, FHL and I know that with Faith and Hope, one day I will find the Love that God intends here on earth. :)