I would add to the posts already given that it also depends on your location. I am about to move to my third city since joining CM. I have met some very nice people, but the amount of people online relatively close to my area has fluctuated quite a bt. Seems CM is just more popular in certain parts of the US.
I am getting ready to move to Louisville, KY. I did a quick search and after viewing the results I am wondering where did all the catholics go in that area. Versus I looked into a job offer in Chicago and did a search and went wow, look at all the people on CM in that area.
You may be experiencing that as well.
My best friend Pat lives in Louisville and met her husband Dan (from Romulus MI) on CM.. Keep an open mind.. The south Indianapolis metro area is only about 90 minutes from Louisville..You're not that far from Cincinnati and only about 3 hours from Nashville too..