My brow furrows more and more as I read a man's laundry list of his super-ideal, super-busy, super-toned, super-athletic, super-attractive, super-world traveler, super-sexy, super-fun party girl. To me, it doesn't appear this 'super-man' is looking for anything more than a fun date.
No thanks. GOod luck!
I am more interested in a man who desires to build a family, to create a warm and welcoming home together, to pray together and help each other get to heaven, to practice our Catholic faith in small, daily ways, to meet his lifelong companion and helpmate, to meet a woman who greets him with a genuine smile and one he can't wait to come home to, to find the woman God intends for him to love, protect, honor and share life's journey with.
That is how I describe MY Superman.
Yes. I agree. The extensive litany of superficial requirements (related to a certain look)is a turn off for me also. Especially when they also want someone "low maintainance" and "humble". Really!!! Doesn't everyone want someone both attractive to them and low maintainance. Give me a break.
It's OK to want someone who is attractive, but should it be stated so conditionally so that it is a priority over character? The tactful way to learn whether someone is attractive is to look at profile pictures, and to communicate and meet.