William, I think perhaps others think there is a disconnect between what one says they believe (like in a response to the 7 questions), and what they are really trying to do in real life (like a post about chaste living would suggest).
So maybe there is a thought that lots of us say "I believe" to the premarital sex question, but don't necessarily conclude that we mean it, or tjat we mean it in the fullest sense of chastity (no ABI as someone above suggested, no "parties for one", etc.)
So can see how maybe posting about it gives a fuller, truer, more serious spin to a "yes" to that premarital sex question.
But I am with Marian, if someone thinks that is some statement about how one feels about sex after marriage, or that one is a prude, I agree: that is a ridiculous conclusion, and if someone is prone to think that way about me, let them; they are not for me anyway.
From experience, the 7/7 doesn't assure anything. Also, if one reserves premarital sex for marriage, that doesn't mean that he or she is not up to doing everything besides "technical sex". Chastity is a whole different conversation, and it's a very important one!
Thanks for your post Tara.