Okay, so as I am sitting at my computer here just finishing typing in these past remarks, I have the news on TV and their guest is a dating coach for men. He has 5 tips (which they spend a total of about 5 minutes on). I didn't catch his name, but I think his tips are good.
So, for you men, I wrote these down (and, they are specifically aimed at MEN)
1)STOP judging yourself (in other words, stop thinking that you're not good enough, not rich enough, not educated enough, etc.)
2)You need to feel WORTHY (in other words, don't idealize the woman or put her on a pedestal so that you think she is too good for you)
3)Pick a good DATE (in other words, a restaurant you're comfortable in or a setting that you like and know about)
4)LISTEN, don't try to read minds (in other words, don't assume you know what the woman is thinking, ask her questions, and listen to her)
5)MAKE A MOVE (in other words, don't be passive (this is not referring to sexual manoeuvers here, it is referring to asking the woman out, making the phone call to her, asking her out for a second date, sending her the email message, ie., be confident enought to pursue the woman you want)
I think these 5 dating tips for men are excellent! So, I would suggest that the CM men read them, remember them, and IMPLEMENT them!