Just though I write on this subject, and to see what you think about. When two people are single and are looking for a realtionship, or a friendship to bloom into a realtionship, the desire to want the same thing at the same time can be trying. As man, I come to believe in being a friend frist and to see where and what we have in common, and build on that thread, and to slowly open the way for nature to take her course on what the woman wants. If one wants a friendship to last, one should devote some time and effort into establishing some common ground in terms of scheduling when to meet, and what events they would like to partake in. Also, as man I take the time to ask questions, and to see what all the woman likes, and does not like, thereby knowning what to do, and what not to on down the road in the friendship stage. The woman should do the same in that it enables both parties to act accordingly, and begin to know what to expect from the other one. Yet, some men and women want to rust things and get on the topic marriage frist without being friends first, so that line of thinking, and wanting will not last in the long run. Being better engaged in the person's needs, and concerns will enhance the chances of marriage, and that both parites will feel equal in all dimensions of being on the same page. That is why I am on this site to find firiends, and to establish common ground, and to see where to can mature from there. Alright, that is my two cents, on this topic, what are your thought on it?