Personally I think that she should wait for him to pursue. As women we deserve that and it is also important to most men. Not sure I agree with advice at all. You have let him know that you are there so he knows. If he is interested he will pursue. If he is not you are setting yourself up for heartbreak or an unbalanced relationship by pursuing. You are worth it. Wait for the guy who realizes it enough to pursue. You need a man who can step up and lead.
Thank you all so much for the advice. I really was at a lose. By weird I mean I wasn't sure if he would be weirded out by the fact that it is the same area, parish and match. And the fact that we are at the same mass.... really no place to hide or blend into the congregation.
Maybe he might be weirded out by it but if he is you will need to give him time and space to work through it. You may even want to take this discussion to the pink room as he does have access to read it and it may freak him out even more to see you speaking about him.
Basically it won't help to devise a plan to help him change his mind on the weirdness he may feel. It is something that will have to happen in his own time. If he is mature enough to start a relationship atleast the kind of relationship you need, he will be mature enough to work through this. If he cannot work through this, you have your answer. You need a mature man who can lead and is humble enough to work through his vulnerabilities and flaws.
That is what makes a good husband and a good partner for the journey to Christ. Never forget that. This is what you seek, a partner for the journey to Christ. A partner who will give you a foretaste of that unconditional love that only Christ can give and a glimpse of the ultimate fulfillment that again only He can give. Do not let proximity or ease make you compromise your need for that as it is the foundation and cornerstone of a successful application of the sacrament.
Don't let others make you think that waiting is a mistake and or push you into going out there and seeking anyone and or everyone who will pay you attention. That IMO is a compromise of your dignity and of that beautiful master plan that God has for your life. You deserve the best and already have it in Christ Jesus the man has pursued and is pursuing you as we speak. If God can pursue you a man can surely humble himself to do the same. Don't forget your worth. Make yourself available but allow yourself to be pursued. The men are the pursuers and if they want something and it is worth it enough to them, they will do whatever it takes to make it happen. Essentially they will lead. Every person is unqiue and so every relationship will be different but this is foundation make no mistake. Many wise women had to drill it into my head and it not until I saw it successfully in application time after time that it finally stuck.