Exactly Tom. I think the same way. As long as I'm attracted to the woman physically whether she's taller, bigger or older the Catholic faith and morals is all I care about. But I think guys tend to think more openly than women these days. That's just my opinion.
Let's go to Scenario Land Thrill Seekers! Where we will breath deeply the deep scent of magnolias and sip tea in the evening cool! We will use 2 couples for our scenario trip, (Disclaimer no couples were hurt in these tests as we adhere to the UN Scenario usage Treaty. Which everyone signed, No choice!") Couple one: Older Male By 15 years + Younger Woman + all major areas in common plus shared hobbey interests ;
Couple two: Younger Male + Older Woman By 15 years + all major areas in common plus shared hobbey interests;
Couple three: young male + young female + strong physical attraction, nothing in common.
The marriages go on for ten years and the world ends and all the couple die at the same time, does the age difference matter or was it better to be with someone for ten years of happiness and enter eternity with joy.
Or is it better to marry around the same age group so society won't point and giggle and be thoroughly miserable after the physical gloss has been worn off. Will society be the ones to accept responsibility for imposing rigid standards that ultimately make no sense?????
What would you choose to do if you were faced with a partner older by 15 years(Whatever) who was a perfect match with everything you were looking for in a spouse. Would you have the strength to give the bird to society and take the happiness or would you reject the chance and settle for younger and not so compatible???