I did not if you are not on the site everday. If you do not renew your membership and when it expires it should be removed that day it does make sense to be sending out messages to somebody that cannot receive them. The computer could be programed easily to do this. As long as you are a paid up member you stay on the site regardless rather you use it or not. But if you do not renew you should be removed.
Fred different people use the site differently. Some check the site multiple times a day and others a few times per year. Other times people simply take a break but they still would like to keep their account. Each user can remove their profile anytime they like and if they do not log-into the site within 18 months we remove their profile. Check out the member stories and you will find lots of couples who were not active or subscribers at the time they recieved a message and it was that message that made them interested and ultimately led to them meeting and marrying their spouse. I can also tell you that we have a pretty strict standard compared to ther sites many of which never remove profiles include some Catholic sites.