What's the show-stopper for you?
When I see that a person doesn't have a 7/7 on the faith questions. Also if they smoke and have children.
Bingo! Along with if she picks "mine" when it asks whose parents she wants to live near and when they say "never, no TV" because I watch TV.
I might pick "yours" for parents, because mine have been dead for a long while.
Regarding TV...do you really think someone who doesn't watch TV is going to FORCE you to turn it off?
I don't know who knows. There are women who date a man for six months and then demand he gets rid of his dog so it's a gamble Frank's not willing to take. Lol.
That she dissents from any Church teachings. While I do consider it a duty of mine to evangelize, doing so during the pursuit of someone who's supposedly Catholic already doesn't seem like a good use of my time. Especially when there are already a lot of fine (and diverse) candidates who are in full agreement with the faith already.