(quote) John-917143 said: Sadly, I'd have to say that my experience with chivalry and women on here has been interesting to say the least. Most of the time, it wasn't really appreciated or noticed by women that I've gone on dates with which came as a surprise to me. I remember on one date, one gal looked at me weird because I held the door for her and pulled out her chair for her. Later on in the evening, she remarked that she wasn't used to being treated that way. Another woman I went on a date with told me that it made her feel like she wasn't independent enough to do things on her own.
Sorry to hear John. But I'd like to believe there are more appreciative folks...than unappreciative ones...so don't stop what you are doing. You probably didn't go out with either one again....right? (one and done!)