So I say compromise is the answer. Either might not like to do what makes each happy separately but to compromise and do it then let the other have freedom to do their thing sometimes and maybe find that one hobby both enjoy together. Just call me Dr. Eileen like a spin off on Dr. Phil. If you could work that out, wouldn't it be great fun? Who knows, maybe that girl might like mud 4 wheeling!
Yes Moderation in all things. I recently met someone who could not set and appointment to skype because he was busy drinking nightly. He would never see it that way but it is true. He thinks that is normal but it is not normal for me. That is something he does not want to face is a serious problem and is going to ruin his chances to find anyone.
I think having one's own interests is good, but one has to be able to open one's life and schedule in order to even give a relationship/friendship a chance.
Also I agree with Lauren, a sense of humor is vital!