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I know that there are good Catholic women. I'm sorry if I have sounded negative. I don't even mind listening to some issues as much as I just don't like being one in a series of a long line of serial dating.
Sorry, I was just venting.
Venting is more than welcome :)
I just want to make sure you don't feel discouraged because of your experiences! All the best!!!!
Sorry to hear you've had bad experiences. I need to be straight with you, though: why are you not more discerning, before you meet with these women? I've contacted and been contacted many women here and I can assure you that there are many good women on CM. Maybe you need to write more to women here before you take the step of meeting them. Are you being selective enough? Do you know what you really want and are you willing to allow God to bring that woman to you?
Screen the ladies so that you screen them out prior to any date if possible.
Welcome to the forums Rachel!!!
It blows my mind that some chica would even go on a date and speak of her past, the past is past and that's where it should stay, we've all had bad experiences, but frankly, if a person can't let go of their past experiences, they shouldn't be dating until they've healed or made peace with it. I congratulate for at least trying, and I encourage you to keep on keeping on, get a feel for the person with a few exchanges. And take it from there. God Bless!