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The story of Abraham and Sarah is told in chapters 11-25 of the book of Genesis.
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What I do appreciate more is the "viewed me" section. It will show you that the person himself initiated the view. If you get an emote or short message, that's a good sign.
Keep in mind that as a relatively new member, things will seem to be painfully slow. People need to be really patient, but that patience frequently pays off.
If there are some people who have viewed your profile, it wouldn't hurt or be too forward to send a quick message of acknowledgment in the hope of lighting some sparks.
So do not give up hope, pray and do searches with your own criteria. Send emotes, be on the forums to be visible.
Since they instituted the "matching" system at CM, I've received a decent amount of "matches" (probably 30 or 40 in the months it has been around), but as it has been said by others in this thread, they're generally not real matches for me. I usually find that those ladies they match me up with tend to be at a different place in their lives than I am. I think I have received maybe 8 or so that I followed up with (they were at the same point -- more or less -- that I am in life).
I agree with others here that maybe you should do some searching on your own -- the "search" tab at the top of the page is a good place to start. Pick "new search", set some parameters, and see what type of results come up. If you just wait for the "matches" to show up, you're not using the site to its fullest potential. Just my
I had a couple right off the bat, in the first day or so, then every week or so, it seems another one or two are added. I made contact with one from the first batch and we exchanged some messages, chatted a couple of times and then he just sort of disappeared completely lol. . .none of them have tried to contact me and I'm not too sure how any of this will work. . .but I'm still here and enjoying the forums.