I am uncertain how helpful a "women in general are looking for" topic would be... because, of course, it comes down to what the woman you're interested in is looking for -- which may fall in with the general expressions of honesty and interest expressed here, but may, of course, not. I can only tell you what I am looking for in a potential husband and it shouldn't be taken as a blanket statement about all of my gender, or even all of my gender on this website.
That caveat expressed, however:
I am looking for someone who is at a place in his life where a relationship can be a priority. I don't want to be an afterthought anymore. I am very through with guys who think of their careers first and their relationships second.
I am looking for someone who can be a spiritual leader in my life (as I am willing to be in his) -- I want someone whose relationship with Christ inspires me to deepen mine, and vice versa. I am looking for someone who is willing to, as Fr. Barron puts it, join me in falling in love with a "transcendent third".
I am also looking for someone who doesn't take life too seriously and can make me laugh -- someone who can see the beauty in creation.
And finally, I am looking for that indescribable feeling, which is that a man would be a good father for any children we might have... (now THAT'S attractive.)