Before I was aware of the personality types, I was aware that I attracted "type A" personality women, or what would be categorized here as choleric. I was told by some of these women that my calm demeanor and peaceful disposition is what drew them to me.
From now on I'll be watching out for all of those type-A women stomping about arm in arm with a calm man.
I am melancholic/phlegmatic so I am normally low-key as well as being an introvert. Having someone who is always wanting to be active or who is reacting excitably to situations would put my nerves on edge.
So, my response is: yes! I do appreciate someone who presents a calm demeanor.
First, congratulations on meeting someone who seems to be both reasonable and, I'd certainly assume, somehow attractive. Also thanks for letting me know that your mind has been pondering in the same pond of ideas as I have.
That was interesting, how you must have been concerned about his possible reaction to your wasting all of that very expensive gasoline.
Lastly, thanks for another vote for calm men.
Thank you for adding your opinion. It seems to me that calmness is a foundation for most of the kinds of communication that are desired in a relationship. Of course, there are other kinds of needed communication that require intensity and emotion.
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I like people with personality.