Sebastian, I am sorry to hear of your turmoil. I was involved (with my son when he was 16) with a legal matter that I thought was going to overwhelm me, truly. Talk with God and He will send an answer, I know He will. I have faith He will but YOU have to have faith too. I was sent an answer through my parish family. It was still life changing but we grow through these experiences.
Talk, listen and pray. My best to you and praying for you,