(quote) Espe-410886 said: did it ever occur to anyone that perhaps it's not God's will? I too have been single for twenty-seven yrs., engaged twice long time ago but got cold feet. Now, I've been ready to meet Mr. right for the past eight or nine yrs. and, no luck.
I'm either being picked by very old men, men much younger then myself, men I'm not attracted to or if we start making contact, they soon stop?
At this point in my life, I'm just looking for great male marriage companionship and most men are looking for more then companionship.
I believe that we can continue to hope but sometimes we need to come to the conclusion that God wants something else for us.
Espe, you've said well what I often think. Sometimes we create our own frustration by saying we want and will accept God's will but do we really? Maybe we do as long as it is the plan we would have plotted for ourselves. Lot harder to relax and let His will be done.