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Tobias and Sarah's story is from the Book of Tobit, and his journey is guided by Saint Raphael.
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You mention LOOKS....LOOKS...LOOKS....LOOKS !!!!!!!
Well of course !!!!!
I want to ""LOOK"" into her heart !!!!!!
I want to ""LOOK"" into her eyes !!!
I want to ""LOOK"" to see her Spirit Shine !!
I want to ""LOOK"" at her genuine warm smile !!!
I want to ""LOOK"" at her warm glow when we're together !!
I want to ""LOOK at her as Jesus ""LOOKS"" at her.
YES..!!! ""LOOKS"" are extremely important....
It depends on ""HOW"" we are ""LOOKING"",,,,,
and what is our criteria !!!
Looks are important in my opinion, and what looks good is different for everyone. Can't tell you how many times growing up my mom would say to us "look kids! Here comes that handsome man!" and we'd look around going "what? Where?" And a big, bearded, chubby balding guy would emerge from the crowd, "You mean DADDY???!!! Are you serious???"
That being said, the more I get to know a guy, my attraction to him changes. As I like him more and more his looks get better and better. As I like him less...my attraction to him wanes and he joins the band of the "looks good but won't wear well."
To me, height is more of an issue. I find it easier to look up to guys who are taller than me.
Looks, I mean - I happen to appreciate a lot of looks - country, rockstar, urban swag, full head of hair, no hair, few hairs, skinny, athletic, "fluffy", academic "nerds", preppy, laid back, White, Chocolate, Habibis, Latino, Asian, Other,tatts, no tatts, etc etc
As long as they have good hygiene and grooming
I'm not that tall either, I'd like them taller too.
Ultimately though - he'll look "hot" in my eyes because of his love for God.
Personality/Active Mind/Body/Spirit can trump looks any day-and attraction can be sparked up to a whole notha' level!