(quote) Ben-1081622 said: I'm not really having trouble finding women around my age range or even within my age range in my area at all. For me the issue is more, finding Catholic women who share at least some of my interests. I'm not a very active, outdoorsy person, and it seems that all the women on this site from Minnesota and the Dakotas are (no offense to them) almost identical. They're all really active, outdoorsy women who work out every day and go hunting/camping/fishing all the time, love dogs (and likely have at least one) and country music, and are largely nursing students, usually at one of the colleges in the area. I am sure they are wonderful girls, and they do deserve to find a man who will be who they're looking for, but I don't think I'm that man, as they are about the opposite of who I'm looking for. I would likely bore them because we wouldn't likely enjoy the same activities, I've had a long-standing fear of dogs since I was a child (that actually once cost me a job that I could have made a career if it wasn't for the dogs), and we largely don't have the same taste in movies/music/books, etc. Those rare women I find who do have something in common (of value, outside faith) with me, or who I do think I would be compatible with, and who happen to live in my area just about never respond to my messages. That's where I'm having difficulties.
Do a study abroad in a country like Poland. I was over there a few months ago. I saw many attractive young women, many if not most of whom wear feminine-looking clothes. They go to church, too.