(quote) Joan-529855 said: Ugh, sounds familiar (same thing my former spouse said). As far as the comment that "most of these people living together are not attending mass", I don't necessarily agree. My former husband attends mass every Sunday with his live in girlfriend and they both receive communion. I met a woman whose former husband was living with his "fiance" and distributing communion as an EME at mass. When she tried to inform the parish priest he told her to "mind her own business".