Don't worry God and his holy angels will send us one.
I jut have to rest in the knowledge that God knows his plan and it is better than mine.
People here assume that every other member (unless stated as "divorced") is in a position (morally and financially) to marry. If you're just here to opine or for the company, then you're wasting people's time. You can do these things in any political forum.
I agree with you about your post. I find, too, that men who are divorced don't respect your wishes to not be contacted because they are not free to marry. I can understand if people who are divorced want fellowship but dating??? What, to then have each other's heart broken if that person doesn't receive an annulment? I know everyone is on the road of conversion--I guess that is what it amounts to here. Ephesians 5 relationship is the standard I set.
The mass sermon I heard today was wonderful. It was on the roadblocks we put up to find the "perfect" job, mate, marriage, etc. when no one or situation is perfect. Food for thought for us all :).