My objection to the canned "Not interested" message was, it was very brusque in tone, and people would send it in reply to an emote that said something like, "Nice profile. Hoping you have a good weekend."
Thank goodness, nowadays people reply with "Thanks, you too." Meaning is clear, and not so much like a slap in the face.
Or maybe not. Maybe a "no response" is the best response. Comments? Thanks!
You aren't the only one disappointed in responses. I have tried to contact most of my matches and basically 95% don't respond. Why are they on this site if they aren't interested in meeting people? I also have no one contacting me either. I will probably let my membership lapse when it comes due in August as I haven't had one single date from this site or anyone interested in me.