I have read the OPs opening topic starter and I do feel for you man. I know you have changed your stance further on in the discussion.
It can be extremely frustrating to say the least. I just moved over here from a "Free" online dating site where folks had nothing to lose. I wanted to try out CM, as you have to pay, which tells me there has to be a degree of sincerity here. I hope this is the case.
So far, I am not sure if I made a mistake as I live north of the 49th parallel, but a majority of the women I see are in the United States. Nothing wrong with that, but, I was hoping for a bit of a closer drive to meet the "One"..
I shall keep at it..
Steve, keep your chin up. You live in a country with over 330 million people. Odds have to be pretty darn good that you'll find someone.
Therese I guess honesty is the best policy I have been told that they feel that we have nothing in common. I know that people don't like being told no but I would rather be told up front then to wonder why or keep sending smiles or saying hi for days.