I keep reading over and over, being here for years, in and out, paying these guys money, and you are still single, still not connecting up with quality Catholic men, when Good quality Catholic men are posting the same on the guys section of the forum and this as well. The thing is, for both, define what you are really looking for, and seeing some of the profiles, I can tell there is some growing and getting real that needs to be done. I look to myself, trying to accomplish a project with the tools at hand, and if the project requires me to pick up more, and learn more about how to do something, I'm at the hardware store and at the classroom. Looking at ones self, in a what can change to affect a better outcome is what it should be about.
What I'm seeing is pretty easy to figure out and if the staff here would take the time to give us some gentle guidance towards these areas, manually, that would be great for a whole many people. It doesn't behoove the powers that be, to actually facilitate, for they would then be losing members. You don't mess around with CM and pay your monthly fee if you find someone and get married, bottom line.
I'll leave you gals with this, what I'm seeing you post, is a testament to who you are, and you are beautiful children of God, and any devout man in your criteria would be blessed beyond measure to have you by their side. Don't limit yourself, nor question your integrity, for that is the beauty of you shining through.
Christs Peace be with you all!