For some people years may be the answer,,others weeks or months.....That is why Baskin Robbins has 57 flavors of ice Cream,,,there is no right or wrong answer...
We both feel with a certainty that we are meant for each other and that God had plans for both of us - my man had to wait for 13 long years for me. And he sees it as a time that God was working in him.
We need to be patient that God will work in his time - but we need to take action and do our bit. And that might be just remaining in Catholic match and being open to God's plan and timing.
God will abundantly bless you with that attitude! Most CM members do not have your outlook on this CM experience. Most especially, those under 25.
However, that being said, we have to do something too. We can't just sit in our homes waiting for the doorbell to ring. Because Jesus isn't going to just hand us a guy without a little effort on our part. That is how I treat this site. It's me trying to give God some options to work with. I don't know as many people as I'd like, and I don't have the opportunity to meet a lot of new ones that I can keep in touch with. If I meet the man God intends for me here on this site, then Hallejuha! If I don't, then at least I've broadened the possiblitites. I'm meeting new people, and if they aren't the one, then maybe they have a brother/cousin/friend/ect who will be.