The beauty of CM is, IF the people are honest, a strong spiritual and intellectual relationship can be built fairly easily.
Too bad most CM potentials won't be local and IRL. IRL, don't dismiss them. 2 local women, who have been friends for awhile, and I ran the Bluegrass 10,000 two days ago. They're young, but are women. One is 27, and I met her in the Bluegrass 10,000 about 10 years ago. My sister knows the 27-yo and agreed w/ me that "she is growing up", and indeed a woman. The other I guessed was 40 - 45, but after published Bluegrass 10,000 results, I now know she's in the 35 - 39 age group. Age difference can be tough - I think either of these two women would accept a date from me ... but will I ask?
As far as being divorced or not, it had to do again with the "why have you never been married" thing. I'm sorry if I offended you, too complicated too get into to explain the whole thing over again. Again, I was responding to someone else's negative post in defense of never marrieds. God, this is exhausting. Go back to earlier posts please. I was responding to someone else earlier. I give up.
God is in charge... : )