(quote) Cynthia-864900 said: I joined this site so I could find someone with similar values, someone to trust, someone to go to church with...someone to love the greatest gift GOD gives us! First I wanted similarities and starting with GOD is my first priority. I have never done this before and I am unsure my profile defines the person I really am? Maybe there should be a section my typical day...I start my day with a walk to the beach, then my morning prayers, then determine the days priorities, trying to find time for fun with my children, each meal starts with prayers, etc... Any thoughts? Tips for my profile?
after a failed relationship, i found myself desperate joining dating sites. I took the initiative to subscribe for a one year subscription, since am not a standard member, am surprise with the responses I've got from my inbox, invites for chat's, asking for my email ,but most of them wants to scam , ask money and favors, there are who will ask you to show body parts in exchange of money and will really message you "dirty words" i thought foreign men has halo, (since my relatives and friends met their foreigner partner in dating sites too). One month before it expires, i permanently deleted my account there, because i join the site not for sex and to be scam, to really find someone who will help me mend my broken heart. Though i have bad experiences on that dating site it didn't stop me .. i tried CM for 6 mos, with the intention of finding a God fearing man, who will love me and not use me for his own purposes, at first am really confused of how the site works, lots of questions runs into my mind, no reply from those men whom i send emo's and messages, invites for chats but declined, since there's nothing wrong to take the first move i keep sending... Until i got few responses, like "thank you",
with that simple "thank you" i learned to appreciate little things, that desperation is not an answer to find someone, that healing takes time... On CM, i feel respected....
i still send emo's and birthday greetings with no expectation... am still here till Feb of 2014, i know that i won't renew not because i have no luck but because i believe my subscription doesn't end on finding someone, God will lead me to him whether am on this site or the outside world... Never stop discerning and praying..