I agree I like your checklist - very thorough, very well thought out. I especially like (3), please post photos. I just won't communicate with a ghost.
Now for a tip for your gender. Try to be original in your profile. Please, no more "honesty" stuff - "I'm looking for an honest man," or "I value honesty," or the like. 'scuse me, but I never thought of myself as anything but honest. Why mention it? Sounds just a little insulting. I'm just saying.
Good luck and God bless, Doug
Not all people, men and women included, are honest. I also have "looking for someone honest" because I've had my share of experiences with dishonest people. Its not my, or I believe anyone's, intention to insult viewers by requesting someone "honest".
Why mention it? As for myself, I am trying to state clearly that I will settle for no less than 100% honesty in a man. It's that important to me, and that why it's in my profile.
I hope you can get past the feeling of being insulted while reading that in women's profiles or you might pass up a good opportunity.