I'm more of an Oatmeal chocolate chip cookies person, so I pay better attention when I bake those, Sweetie!
Thank you Joanne...I'm starving..! I've been eating most of my life..I'm gettin perty good at it...
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I don't know you. You are correct in that. Nor will I take the time to do so beyond that which you yourself disclose publicly here. Even then, I have limited interest in what you or others write here. No offense, just that my interests are elsewhere. And, I don't expect more from others toward me.
I responded to your posting because you posed a question and I just happen to be reading it and was inclined to answer.
I took your single (and short) posting that I addressed at face value, meaning on the sole content of it.
You essentially indicated the following it two statements and then posed a question:
(You) don't WANT (my emphasis) to be single
(you) discerned --> no priesthood
"what else is there?"
Based on what you acknowledge with the statement and what you omit from what we know is out there, yes, I CAN make limited assumptions. And your question was begging for an answer for what you may have been omitting with "what else is there?".
Now, if you don't want me/others making assumptions take more time to ponder and write more completely; don't oversimplify or omit.
Well, very clearly, you left out the "God's will" part, at that juncture. However, in part you indicated what YOU DON'T WANT. Yet, God's DESIRE is what we SHOULD be doing. And that is all I was pointing out. How is it not clear to you? Re-read my first sentence of my response. Then read the rest as backup.
Now, as for what you actually think and know and what you write, could be two different things. And, it seems it's the case here. I am not a mind reader and won't pretend to be. So, don't expect me to know what's in your head or in your previous posts outside this thread all the while you acknowledge that I don't. You can't have your cake and eat it too.
Sorry for making this long, but I am trying to be clear and complete. Clear enough, or am I still confusing you?
As for me, I do know that I tend to be very wordy, and it's a hard habit for me to break. Likely, a hazard of spending so much time around my children and explaining frequently. I do a lot of explaining of technical things at work too. It unintentionally carries over into here. So it is something I can improve, but it's hard for me to stop.
As for what you now say in your last two paragraphs, you paint a much more complete picture AND I applaud you for actually doing all that. I wish that all single men and women would.
If you are simply replying to the one partial sentence you cited earlier, then forgive me, I could have written it better. One does have to really slow down when reading it, to be able to get the full meaning I was intending.
Thanks for the exhortation for me to write more clearly. But I am technically inclined (did you notice my analytical style which often explores and tries to solve?) and not an eloquent style for the beauty that one can achieve with writing.
I am largely on the forums here to get a deeper understanding of myself and to expand my horizon of social skills by interacting with others here. We learn from one another and about ourselves and that is why I derive a certain pleasure from this.
Peace of Christ to you, Chris. Thanks for reading all that I am certainly different, I know
As a lover of the Word, and a lover of your kitchen, are you classifiable as a 'marthamary', in that should the Lord visit you in your home to preach to your friends, you would invite him to sit at your kitchen bench and bellow into the living room so you can hear what he says while whipping up a delighful repast for your Friend and friends?