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Jul 17th 2013 new
Most of us have had similar experiences and feelings of rejection. I have learned from my time on CM and in meeting IRL much what Dawn has said. I do not expect any exclusivity until it is mentioned in conversation with the man and have learned not to put expectations on the first IRL. When I first joined CM I had met a man that I had been communicating with for 3 months almost daily. I had fallen for him by this time and we had a great time when we met. It was the first time I had ever considered an LDR to be a possibilty. Suffice to say that it just fizzled. He had children at home and wasn't prepared to start a new relationship. I had thought it was my fault when he stopped calling and of course felt sad. He called me a year later and apologized for abruptly stopping Communication . He told me it had happened too fast and he wasn't ready to make changes in his life . He said he got caught up in the romanticism of meeting someone online .. Lesson learned
Jul 18th 2013 new
I thought of your post here when I stumbled upon this quote in Facebook, and I thought maybe I can share with you.

Although Rick Warren is not a Catholic, i think this quote will apply to just almost anybody who is in that mode of feeling rejected.

"Anytime your love is rejected, just redirect it. There are millions of people who need your love and would be transformed by it."
Jul 18th 2013 new
He could come to you, or meet half way. If that doesn't work for him, possible red flag, or maybe still married and just separated. I do CM has any real way of checking. Just a thought
Jul 18th 2013 new
Thank you all for your help! Everyone on CM is amazing people who really care!

God Bless!

BTW, On St Peter's Square forum I posted to all the Wisconsin guys to check out my profile :) I wish I could post it in 2 forums, but I am sure that is not allowed :)
Jul 19th 2013 new

Einstein had many failures before he got it right. Now, if you had hanky-panky with him, that can explain his aloofness. You must come to the table with the confidence our Holy Father provides. Remember, our goal is maraige. Talk to older ladies and ask them how they did it. Keep your prayers for your relationship with God first, he'll send the one. Just get yourself ready. God will keep you focused and your sights clearer. I get hit on 3 times a day, but I want marraige; because that is what creates healthy communities. DON'T CHASE A MAN!!!! Get more confidence-- Look at yourself in the mirror. Does your face reflect the blessings God has given you? Then dear, wake up every morning thanking him for ten things and go to bed thanking him for ten things. Trust me, your face will reflect your gratefulness, and you will have an abundance of gentlemen callers. Quality honey, not quantity. It is up to our generation to change the lives of people.
Bless you dear, and do send me your wedding photos.
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