Discussion related to living as a Catholic in the single state of life. As long as a topic is being discussed from the perspective of a single Catholic then it will be on-topic.
Tobias and Sarah's story is from the Book of Tobit, and his journey is guided by Saint Raphael.
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I enjoyed reading your thread. It makes so much sense, in fact , a person cannot be "known" by just a profile. There has to be communication and much thought when meeting or writing to a person. Sometimes, a person just needs to extend a hand...and meet... nine!!
You are so correct about a woman's intuition. It is exciting to get an email, and also getting a second email from the same person, although you feel it in your gut there is something that is not just right. and have expressed this in your previous letter. At this point, one is hoping a change, (a good change) may have occurred. Ah, maybe a desperate hope!
Anyway, I think this may be a reason why, because of human nature, or maybe maternal nurture, it is hard to let some actors go, because they have expressed and created a description of a wonderful life they may lead now, and/or the possibility of you in his world also. But still, you know, something is still not quite right.
My questions are:
WHY do we hold on to said person and worry about our "relationship" for longer than necessary?
WHAT is making us stay there?
WHEN a breakup happens,
WHY do we think, "if I had just________...please fill in the blank.
Anybody? Just thinking out loud...