What really makes me wonder is the amount of women who don't accept the church teaching concerning chastity and perhaps many might still practice it but in some way not accept in the same tight as the church ? also ladies are many of the men the same way?
I was raised old school where no punches were pulled about "living in sin" and not only was it a horrible unspeakable thing but also setting a bad example as well ......brim stone at it's fiery best!!! in fact it was so unspeakable .... back then all I cared to know or didn't dare ask so somewhere a few decades ago when I was to old for a boy and to young to be a man my dear dad sat me down and gave me the nuts and bolts!
I watched a few videos a day or so before writing this and one priest gave a wonderful talk about "exploring"committed love or taking the safe way by only making "half a commitment" ??? Well he didn't exactly say that but he did make some very good points in a kindly way because the church at times may forget about the single folks it really cares about family life and so my brothers and sisters in Christ lets not be judgmental but share in some positive ,productive and good old / modern widespread enlightenment on this topic With love Paul!