In regards to the "photos" of kids. In today's world of social media, all you have to do is google a person's name and a photo will appear, even your kids photos, so you aren't "protecting" them by not posting their photo on your CM profile. And I agree that men who DO post photos of their kids may not be any better of a person than men who don't. I didn't say it was a "deal breaker"....I just said I would lose interest. THere seems to be a lot of complaints about the types of photos others post on their profile and I was just addressing that aspect of the original post. I should have included my original thought, which was Christina's #4. It is definitely more where my thoughts are in regards to why I would lose interest.
That is perfectly legitimate and a preference choice that is yours and yours alone.
Now personally I know that I COULD be interested in someone 20 years younger. But note, I said could be not necessarily would be or am especially looking for someone 20 years younger. Therefore, I understand and have no obection nor wouldI think less of any women who says either in general or to me in particular that they are not interested in me because of my age.