Not sure I understand. The profiles are there for people to look at....to find out information and make a determination if one is possibly interested in the person. I Imagine if most are then interested, they would send a note, smile, etc... If they don't send anything, I would assume they are not interested enough to take the next step.
So I cant know if i might be interested if I dont look at the profile ( or vice versa).
Are you saying you send a message to anyone who just bothers to look at your profile? No need to respond to a 'look'/ or a view. I guess I'm not insulted by looking. People look at each other in public all the time too, and they interact with those they are interested in.
Now, if someone looks, AND send you some sort of communication like a smile or note, you respond, and they don't ,....well, I agree that is rude!
If someone looks at your profile and drops you a note then respond if you want.
If you look at someone's profile and you send a smile... then they do not think you are a paying member!!! If you get a smile then they are most likely not a paying member. Remember that not everyone will respond as some can't!!!
You can have profile and on line and unless you get involved in the forums, chats, or gatherings... you might never find a mate. Most of my friends on line have found there mates through the forums.
If you have other questions please email and I will be willing to help if I can.