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Aug 20th 2013 new
(quote) Laura-857740 said: ..where are the rest of you....? Why did you personally choose not to put a photo on? It will help the rest of us understand better and maybe not jump so quickly over your profile.
I was here for a while before I uploaded a picture. I think it has a lot to do with self confidence. When I look in the mirror I do not see the person I am. I never have. I remember in my teenage years, I thought I was fat so I never wore shorts and was embarrassed to go swimming in public. Looking back at my pictures, now I see that I wasn't fat at all. I just wasn't skinny. What I would give to look like that now!
I think its about how we were raised and the experiences in our lives that make us feel the way we do about our image. I have never felt good enough. I remember praying to wake up one day and be taller, thinner, prettier. It was many years later when I met up with old high school friends that i was told that they thought I was popular and was pretty back then. I was shocked.
I know it maybe easy for some people to just upload a photo and think nothing of it but for others, its a major crisis. I had two good photos that I deemed acceptable. I posted those and thats all I had until recently. Someone insisted that I post more and understanding the importance of it, i reluctantly did. I now have a few more pictures of myself within the last few years, along with my family, because we are a package deal. I even posted a picture of myself as a teenager just for kicks but I did say that in the description. tongue
Aug 20th 2013 new
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Aug 20th 2013 new
So you make my point that if there is no profile picture many people don't open the profile to be able to see scrapbook pictures.. They assume that if there is no profile pic there are no photo's at all..
Aug 20th 2013 new
These days most camera's are digital and therefore loaded directly onto the computer.. There are no negatives..
Aug 20th 2013 new
All my photos are negative ashamed wink laughing
Aug 20th 2013 new
(quote) Mary-976718 said: All my photos are negative
In photography, any negative can lead to a positive.

Or... you could just get a digital camera.

lil mikie

Aug 20th 2013 new
(quote) Donna-83441 said: So you make my point that if there is no profile picture many people don't open the profile to be able to see scrapbook pictures.. They assume that if there is no profile pic there are no photo's at all..
biggrin Oh...that means we agree ?!!??!!???....I have to go to therapy now...thanks a lot !!! Love ya !!!
Aug 20th 2013 new
Great post Laura!
Aug 20th 2013 new
(quote) Donna-83441 said: But you were looking for yourself and your browser recognizes that you are you... You will always find out everything about yourself.. But a random stranger won't.. I can't understand why this is so hard for people to get..


No need to be rude or condescending, Donna. We are not imbeciles and understand what you are saying. I found your picture as well.
Aug 20th 2013 new
And like I told you, I pulled those pictures from Facebook, As a consequence they will lead you to my Facebook profile which doesn't bother me in the least.. I did not intend to be condescending but really, you came across that way when you sent me a note telling me what my last name is..
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