As for catholic sites, I have tried catholicsingles.com and that site is not nearly as good as this one. There is also avemariasingles.com, which is a good site for very traditional catholics, but there are few profiles and in my experience, many of the people on there can be very judgmental.
This site has worked out for me the best - even though I have been single for quite sometime. For starters, why complain about the forums? Are there people on here just for that? Maybe a few but so what? If they get satisfaction from the forums, what is so bad about that? But I imagine since you have to pay for a membership, the vast majority of people here on this site for purposes of dating. Sure, are there some people who are more serious about it than others? Yes, of course, but how is that different from the real world as a whole?
I think some people unfortunately don't look at the big picture. You only have to get it right once. Sure, rejection is never fun and dating can be a painfully arduous, frustrating experience, but patience is a virtue. You can't expect to meet the one for you overnight. Furthermore, no one should put down those who have been on this for quite sometime. They are likely still searching for the one....
Is God so small that he is so easily stepped over?
When I read the above I see God using a shepherd's hook to pull all men off the dance floor.
I'm going to challenge myself to adopt the attitude and approach that dating and finding my husband here is viable and probable. Nothing is impossible with God, and God IS here. Maybe with the attitude that it will I will be open to it. I do know that if I am firm on that it won't happen, it really won't. I won't give it a snowball's chance in Hell of happening with that kind of negative attitude. And why would a good man bother with a woman who does t believe he exists. But I do believe in him-- he is real.