(I have gotten better now at saying, "thank you for thinking of me, but I am not available at that time.")
Now, the question is firstly, are you a cool Cracker Jack prize or a lame prize? Are you the decoder ring, or are you this: http://www.crackerjackdiamonds.com/EnterCode.aspx
same here.. more rejection and declined chats... the more i persevere to view profile, send messages , birthday greetings and emotigrams, am still in a positive mode and always include rejections into my prayers...
Well Sistas, it is like this: First of all we gotta change our focus. Yep! Start looking at the cars in the Church parking lot. Mr. Single man is out there! Let him walk in to church. Scope out the car or truck....any sport memorabilia? What team? Then look up the last game on your smart phone. Go in to church. Sit next to, behind, or in front of him. Make eye contact! Pay attention to the liturgy. During the Sign of Peace, say the usual, "peace be with you"...followed by "good to see you again!" (While still holding his hand!) Then continue with Mass as usual. God is with you! You are in Church, at Mass! If he is the right one, he will notice! that is unless he is like me and so into the liturgy that you just don't see the tree because the forest is so lovely in the sunlight!
Just a thought!!!