Whether some declined my chat, or no one even attempt to chat me on my favorite's list..
Our lovely Lady Dawn reaches out to EVERYONE! She has the biggest heart I know, an infectious smile and laugh, and REALLY knows how to work this site! Honestly, her advice is golden, she knows what she's talking about. She has met a ton of folks from CM, and understands how to get the most out of this site that one possibly can!
Back to a comment to the OP - don't be discouraged by no responses to your communication attempts. Not everyone can communicate here, only the paying members can read and reply to your messages. Cast your net wide, talk to everyone, and don't limit yourself to talking to only one person until you've actually met them in person and feel they are exactly the kind of person they claim to be. This is still a public social site, and there will be scammers you have to weed out now and then. Brush them off and move on, don't give them another thought.
And welcome to the site! Have fun, post in the Forums often, attend events if you can, and don't take it all too seriously.
Avoid making the mistake of getting too hung up on one profile or the other. The profiles are here to help us find things in common.
If you haven't done it yet, take the Temperament Test and when you find someone who spins your record, use it to talk about each other's strengths and weaknesses.
Be open to making friends. A LOT of friends. Occasionally, Dawn will send you peppy emails just to make sure you're staying awake. ;)
Above all, have fun and keep praying for God to show you what his will is for your life.
Thanks so much .. to be honest with you, I've been to dating sites yet being fooled and there are lots of scammers too.. maybe am used with their IM's and other options on how to communicate... Every time i go online here, i lift up everything to God... and let him lead my life and meet my possible match.. thanks again and may God bless you always